Oklahoma City Debutante Ball
Family & Nominee FAQ Guide

Welcome to the Oklahoma City Debutante Ball. This guide provides important information for debutantes, escorts, and their families regarding participation, fees, attire, and event expectations.
Nomination Process
Nomination forms must be completed by nominators. Each nominee will receive a candidate number, which will be needed to complete the application form. Candidate numbers will be emailed directly to candidates.
Application Form
Candidates must complete the application using their assigned application number.
Reference Form
A reference form must be completed for each escort and debutante to provide character and background information.
Family Information
A full family contact form must be completed, including information for both parents. Please indicate the number of guests you anticipate inviting to the Ball.
Court Fees
The court fee for debutantes is $2,500. The court fee for escorts is $1,500. Fees are due by September 1, 2026.
Parties & Entertaining
Each debutante or escort is encouraged to host a party, though it is not required. A donation to the Contemporary Art Museum may be made in lieu of hosting. Families may host individually or jointly with others. Event styles may range from brunches and luncheons to evening celebrations.
Table Reservations
Tables for ten guests are available. A fee is required for each seat. There is no discount for purchasing an entire table.
Ticket Pricing
Individual Ball tickets are $400 per seat.
Payment Methods
Checks, wire transfers, and payments using Zeffy are accepted. You can make a payment using the tab Make Payments on the website.
For payment questions, contact Jamie Fansler at 580-823-2121. Fees are due September 1, 2026.
Gentlemen’s Attire
Proper Court Attire is formal black tails with white bow tie and white gloves.  Fathers of debutantes and escorts will rent their tuxedos from J.J. Kelly in Oklahoma City, Oklahoma.
Debutante Gown Approval
Please contact Marsha Swift before purchasing a gown. This helps ensure there are no duplicate dresses. If borrowing a dress, including a mother’s wedding gown, please advise Marsha. Gowns must be white or pale ivory. Primary-colored dresses are not permitted. Contact: 405-826-8359.
Please note that some details may be updated as planning continues. Families will be notified of any changes or additions to event requirements and schedules.